A Complete Piece of Bondage Gear for Behind-the-Back Control

Few restraint positions communicate control as clearly as having the hands secured behind the back and connected directly to the collar. This neck collar and wrist cuffs restraint set is built to create exactly that position, linking a leather collar to a pair of wrist cuffs so the arms are drawn back and held in place, out of view and out of reach. It’s a piece of bondage gear that works on its own for a full scene or layers easily into a larger bondage kit alongside other restraints.

The set is made from genuine leather, which is the material of choice for this kind of restraint for practical reasons as much as aesthetic ones. Leather holds tension well without stretching, which matters when a collar is bearing some of the load from connected wrist cuffs. It’s also less likely than synthetic material to chafe or dig into skin during extended wear, especially around a position that keeps the arms held in one place for the length of a scene.

How the Collar and Cuffs Set Works

The collar attaches to the wrist cuffs using connecting straps or leashes at the back . This creates the classic “behind the back” restraint position often associated with submissive or slave-themed scenes, where the wearer’s hands are secured close to the body and the collar becomes both a restraint anchor and a visual focal point.

This configuration is commonly used for:

• Reinforcing a kneeling or standing submissive position during a scene
• Preventing the wearer from using their hands while keeping the collar as the central restraint point
• Adding a visual and psychological layer of control beyond what wrist cuffs alone provide
• Pairing with a leash, additional restraints, or other bondage kit pieces for a more elaborate setup

Because the connection between collar and cuffs is adjustable  couples can control how tightly the arms are drawn back, from a looser hold for longer scenes to a firmer position for shorter, more intense sessions.

Materials and Craftsmanship

The collar and cuffs are made from  leather, with stitching and hardware built to handle the tension placed on the connection between collar and wrists. The hardware is selected for durability, since this set relies on secure closures at three separate points: the collar, and each wrist cuff.

As with the rest of our restraint line, this set is handmade by USA-based leather artisans. Construction quality matters especially here, since the collar is bearing connected weight and needs to stay comfortable around the neck throughout a scene rather than digging in or shifting under tension.

Who This Restraint Set Is For

This neck collar and wrist cuffs restraint set is well suited to:

• Couples exploring collar-based restraint and power exchange dynamics together
• Practitioners already familiar with basic collar or cuff play who want to combine the two into a single connected restraint
• Anyone building a bondage kit around submissive or slave-themed scenes
• BDSM enthusiasts who prefer the feel and durability of genuine leather over synthetic restraint sets

Because this set restricts the arms more fully than standalone wrist cuffs, it’s generally considered a step up in intensity from single-point restraints, and works best once both partners are comfortable with basic collar and cuff use individually.

Sizing and Fit

[NEEDS INPUT: confirm neck and wrist sizing range, adjustability, and whether the collar and cuffs are offered in multiple sizes.] The collar should sit securely without restricting breathing, and the wrist cuffs should be snug without cutting off circulation. Given that this set connects three points on the body, checking the fit of each piece individually before connecting them for a full scene is worth the extra few minutes.

Safety Notes

Any restraint set that includes a collar connected to wrist cuffs requires extra attention to safety. Always use this set with informed consent, clear communication, and a safe word in place. Check the collar fit first to confirm breathing isn’t restricted, then check circulation in the wrists once the cuffs are connected. Never leave someone restrained in this position unattended, since the connected design limits their ability to adjust or free themselves compared to standalone cuffs. Keep safety scissors within reach at all times, and release the connection immediately if there are any signs of numbness, difficulty breathing, or distress. This product is intended for consensual adult use only.

Care Instructions

 In general, wiping the leather down after each use, storing it away from direct heat or sunlight, and conditioning it periodically will help the collar and cuffs stay supple and comfortable over time.

Why Choose Our Neck Collar & Wrist Cuffs Restraint Set

A lot of bondage gear treats the collar and the cuffs as separate purchases, leaving couples to improvise a way to connect them. This set is designed as a complete piece from the start, with a collar and wrist cuffs built to work together rather than as an afterthought. Genuine leather construction, careful stitching, and hardware built for sustained tension make it a restraint set meant to last through regular use, not just a single scene.